BULLYING IN THE ELEMENTARY SCHOOL YEARS

Early childhood is a vulnerable period for many young children because it can be the first time they are with other kids their own age and they are still learning to know how to make friends (coping). These children may not be mature enough to use their words to defend themselves and they don't always understand the consequences of aggressive behavior. The reason children mis-behave in elementary years is because it works; it tends to get them what they want. Young victims, however, may not be able to verbalize to peers or anyone what is happening if they are being bullied at school.

• A bully's goal is isolation. Bullying isn't just physical aggression; it is often the process of exclusion. It may also show up as constantly making fun of another child or not allowing him/her to join a group of friends.
• The bully's power is secrecy. When a victim or bystander keeps the bullying a secret, it makes the situation worse. Encourage children to break the silence and let them know that adults and administrators will protect their privacy.

Even very young victims of bullying can learn to confront aggression.

Studies prevails that more confident children are less likely to be victims. Parents can help increase self- confidence through role-playing, behavior training and classes in karate (Marshal Arts) and school assemblies.

The physical signs that may trigger students who may be a victim of bullying.

• Having continued and excessive withdrawal or depressed mood.
• Refusing to engage even after repeated attempts to invoke him/her.
• Student having regressive and/or anxious behavior over an extended period of time.
• Trends of Power and popularity for boys/girls are commonly based on being tough, confident and or athletic.
• Worrying about fitting in, or whether kids are going to make fun of them. Teasing you or intimidating or physically harassing you.

Parents should be ware of bullying that occur outside of the school's environment, playground, athletic sports, music and theater programs. It is very important to make sure that kids who are bullied have someone at home or school who they can trust and talk with. Making sure that their teachers are available to help if the need arises. Anti-bullying policies should be in place and displayed in all institutions of learning! All of us can make a difference in the health and safety of our children and to prevent bullying.     #Bullying #Anti-bullying #Schools #Elementary #Kids #Bullyinghurts